Romances & Practicalities
A Love Story (Maybe Yours!) in 250 Questions
On Sale: 01/28/2025
Romances & Practicalities
A Love Story (Maybe Yours!) in 250 Questions
On Sale: 01/28/2025
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About the Book
With the pop psychology of Malcolm Gladwell and the humor of Carrie Bradshaw, Romances & Practicalities combines a charming personal love story with research-backed self-help, including a set of 250 questions to help you foster deeper intimacy and get honest about what you’re really looking for in a partner.
A few months into Lindsay Jill Roth’s whirlwind transatlantic courtship with a handsome Englishman, he made a comment that hit her like a gut-punch: “I don’t know you well enough yet.” Despite hours on FaceTime and swoon-worthy dates in London and NYC, Roth realized he was right: they didn’t know each other very well. And their relationship, while certainly romantic, was hardly practical. Did they even have a shared vision for the future?
In the age of increasingly impersonal dating, how do you get off the dating hamster wheel and advance a relationship along the path to commitment? How do you know if you’re with “the one"?
Enter Romances & Practicalities, a set of 250 research-backed questions spread across twelve categories—from money to children to chores to sex—designed to help you identify your wants, needs, and non-negotiables, assess compatibility, initiate tricky conversations with grace, and build a deeper, stronger relationship. Questions range from seemingly light and casual to intimate and serious, including:
- How did your family communicate, share, and argue growing up?
- How are we different? Might our differences be a source of future conflict?
- How important to you is alone-time?
- How important is your career in terms of your identity?
- How do you feel about debt? Mortgages?
- If we were stuck on a desert island, what strengths would you bring to help us survive?
Roth weaves the questions with her own love story, provocative interviews with couples who’ve used the system, and practical guidance from a diverse range of clinical and popular experts including Lori Gottlieb, Nicole LePera, Mark Hyman, Emily Morse, Suze Orman, Nate Berkus, Justin Baldoni, and Barbara Corcoran.
Roth’s wise and witty narrative explores the reasons we don’t often equate romance with practicality, and arrives at a surprising truth: healthy communication isn’t just vital, it’s sexy.
Critical Praise
“Romances & Practicalities is the kind of book I wish every rom-com heroine had in her back pocket. This refreshingly candid and relatable guide demonstrates that love isn’t just about passion—it’s about making choices that align with your heart and your future. If you’ve ever wondered how to make your love story last, this is your perfect starting point.” — Emily Giffin, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Meant to Be
“The five most toxic relationship words are we will figure it out. In fact, we often need the opposite—clear, research-backed guidance—to move forward. Romances & Practicalities is the perfect road map to healthy relationships, and Roth is an honest and hilarious researcher and storyteller. A must-read for anyone looking for deeper connection and love.” — Eve Rodsky, New York Times bestselling author of Fair Play
“Romances & Practicalities takes you beyond the fairy tale, offering 250 essential questions that dive deep into the heart of what truly makes relationships work. Whether you’re seeking love, navigating a new romance, or strengthening a long-term commitment, this book will empower you to foster open communication and practical intimacy, transforming your romantic journey into a lasting, meaningful connection.” — Daniel G. Amen, MD, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Change Your Brain Every Day
“Reading Romances & Practicalities feels a little like eavesdropping—or just watching a really great rom-com. By sharing her love story with ‘the Brit’ (and offering a peek into the lives of dozens of other couples), Roth provides a template for having the conversations we know we should have but don’t know how to initiate. A fun and actionable approach to building a relationship that goes the distance.” — Jo Piazza, internationally bestselling author of The Sicilian Inheritance
“Romances & Practicalities is the pep talk we didn’t know we needed. So much energy is drained by what we don’t say, by decoding the smoke signals of others, by feeling utterly at the whim of fate. I’d like to say that Lindsay Jill Roth has done the work so you don’t have to, but her point (made delightfully and emphatically) is that you do—and that it’s doable and 100 percent worth it. A shockingly easy and fun read for such vital information.” — Emma McLaughlin, #1 New York Times bestselling coauthor of The Nanny Diaries
“Romances & Practicalities offers a much-needed guidebook to empower us all to both know ourselves more deeply and bravely communicate what we want in all our relationships. Sharing her own personal journey, Lindsay Jill Roth gifts us with a compassionate look into the realities of developing and maintaining our connections with others.” — Dr. Nicole LePera, #1 New York Times bestselling author of How to Be the Love You Seek
-Product Details
- ISBN: 9780063339798
- ISBN 10: 006333979X
- Imprint: William Morrow
- On Sale: 01/28/2025
- Pages: 272
- List Price:36.99 CAD
- BISAC1 : FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Dating
- BISAC2 : FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Love & Romance
- BISAC3 : FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Marriage & Long Term Relationships
- BISAC4 : SELF-HELP / Motivational & Inspirational
- BISAC5 : SELF-HELP / Communication & Social Skills
