Love Life

How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

by Matthew Hussey

On Sale: 04/23/2024

Love Life

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Love Life

How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What)

by Matthew Hussey

On Sale: 04/23/2024


About the Book

The leading dating and confidence coach and New York Times bestselling author shares his wisdom and audience-tested advice on finding love through deep confidence, clear boundaries, and a love for life that leaves you fulfilled both within a relationship and before you've found one.

In Love Life, relationship coach and expert Matthew Hussey explores the most important and foundational relationship of all—the one we have with ourselves.

More than a book about navigating our love lives, Hussey's new book is about the deeper issues our love lives reveal. Love isn't the answer to our problems, Hussey explains. It's a doorway to them; not a way out, but a way in. Like most of us, Hussey has gone through major changes over the past decade, and he shares some of those experiences, vulnerabilities, and mistakes.

What happens when we date, fall in love, or when we are faced with loneliness? What decisions do we make that cause us more pain and send us further adrift from what we want? Who hasn't shied away from taking risks because they feared rejection? Who hasn't put up with the wrong behavior because they're afraid of losing someone or of expressing what they really need? Who hasn't lived with the fear and anxiety of not being good enough for their partner? Or knowing their partner isn't good for them, but stay in a bad relationship that is ultimately self-harming? In Love Life Hussey addresses these questions and more.

Our love lives hold the uncanny power to elevate or eradicate all the adjacent joy in our lives. The deeper purpose of Love Life is to ensure your love for your life will never be dependent on your relationship status. It's about finding your love for life even while still on the journey to finding your person.

Critical Praise

“Vulnerable, honest, and witty, this book is my number one recommendation for anyone looking for love. Matthew’s unique voice is one I return to again and again for both my confidence and my love life, and this book is perfect for anyone looking for actionable wisdom and a path to reconnecting with themselves. Love Life is a gift we all deserve!”  — Drew Barrymore, actor, talk show host, writer, producer, business owner, and mom

“Matthew has written an insightful and practical guide to more compassionately understanding the deeper traumas that our relationships often reveal. Love Life can help each of us build a more fulfilling relationship with ourselves and all those around us.” — Dr. Nicole Lepera, author of number one New York Times bestselling books How to Do the Work and How to Be the Love You Seek

“Whether you’re struggling with negative dating patterns, healing from heartbreak, or looking to create lasting confidence, this book is a must-read. It’s an essential guide not just for those looking for love, but also for those who want to find happiness even while on the search for it.” — Mel Robbins, host of the award-winning The Mel Robbins Podcast

“Matthew Hussey has written THE relationship book for everyone—searching, single, committed, or heartbroken! He has taken the antiquated “rules” and elevated the quest for relationships into a quest for self. This book is not a simplistic recipe for finding love, but an authentic road map for being accountable to ourselves. Follow the guidance in this book, and you will have the tools to steer clear of unhealthy relationships, squelch those voices that tell you that you are not enough, give yourself permission to speak your truth, and find the magic within you.” — Ramani Durvasula, PhD, clinical psychologist, author of It’s Not You, and Professor Emerita of Psychology at Cal State LA


Product Details

  • ISBN: 9780063294387
  • ISBN 10: 0063294389
  • Imprint: Harper
  • On Sale: 04/23/2024
  • Pages: 272
  • List Price:35.99 CAD
  • BISAC1 : SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Self-Esteem
  • BISAC2 : FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Love & Romance
  • BISAC3 : PSYCHOLOGY / Interpersonal Relations

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