Confessions of a Funeral Director

How Death Saved My Life

by Caleb Wilde

On Sale: 10/09/2018

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Confessions of a Funeral Director

How Death Saved My Life

by Caleb Wilde

On Sale: 10/09/2018

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“I tremble to say there’s good in death, because I’ve looked in the eyes of the grieving mother and I’ve seen the heartbreak of the stricken widow, but I’ve also seen something more in death, something good. Death’s hands aren’t all bony and cold.”—from Confessions of a Funeral Director

We are a people who deeply fear death. While humans are biologically wired to evade death for as long as possible, we have become too adept at hiding from it, vilifying it, and—when it can be avoided no longer—letting the professionals take over.

Sixth-generation funeral director Caleb Wilde understands this reticence and fear. He had planned to get as far away from the family business as possible. He wanted to make a difference in the world, and how could he do that if all the people he worked with were . . . dead? Slowly, he discovered that caring for the deceased and their loved ones was making a difference—in other people’s lives to be sure, but it also seemed to be saving his own. A spirituality of death began to emerge as he observed:

• The family who lovingly dressed their deceased father for his burial

• The act of embalming a little girl that offered a gift back to her grieving family

• The nursing home that honored a woman’s life by standing in procession as her body was taken away

• The funeral that united a conflicted community

Through stories like these, told with equal parts humor and poignancy, Wilde offers an intimate look into the business and a new perspective on living and dying.

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Critical Praise

“In Confessions of a Funeral Director, Wilde… tells the stories of memorable funerals that helped him arrive at the ‘spirituality of death’ that he now embraces,… what it means to be ‘death positive’… and how he was able to start to find fulfillment as a funeral director.” - Vice

“A fascinating look into the funeral industry and a compelling reflection on what it means to be a living, breathing human.” - Religion News Service

“As a look behind the closed doors of the death industry, as well as a candid exploration of Wilde’s own faith journey, this book is fascinating and compelling.” - National Catholic Reporter

“Caleb Wilde shows us how his faith was transformed and deepened as he allowed death to ‘quiet’ his faith rather than trying to manage death through his religious anxiety. I never thought of a funeral home as sacred space, but I do now. And I’m glad for it.” - Peter Enns, author of The Bible Tells Me So and The Sin of Certainty

With this stunner of a debut, Caleb Wilde sets himself apart as one of the most gifted storytellers of a generation. Wise, vulnerable, and surprisingly relatable, this book is funny in all the right places and enormously helpful throughout. It will change how you think about death. - Rachel Held Evans, author of Searching for Sunday 

“Wilde not only helps us rethink our fears and misgivings about death and dying, he empowers us to embrace the end of life fully alive. Confessions of a Funeral Director will make you laugh, cry, cringe, and it might just change everything you believe to be true about death.” - Matthew Paul Turner, author of Churched and When God Made You

“To a culture long estranged from its dead, Caleb Wilde provides good guidance towards some rapprochement.  By getting the dead where they need to go, a good funeral gets the living where they need to be.  Here is good orderly direction towards those ends.”  - Thomas Lynch, author of The Undertaking

“With wit and warmth, Wilde breaks open the mysteries of funeral directing, allowing a glimpse into that unseen world of chemicals and coffins. Wilde teaches how to cherish the beauty in mourning and honor the deaths. His words guide us past the denials, and lead us to embrace life.” - Carol Howard Merritt, author of Healing Spiritual Wounds

“Caleb Wilde offers a reframing of death that is so badly needed in the world today— one that takes a narrative of loss, despair, and hopelessness, and helps us discover the hope we have been so desperately craving.” - Benjamin L. Corey, author of Unafraid

Confessions of a Funeral Director is deep. It’s also thoughtful. And refreshing.” - Quad City Times

Product Details

  • ISBN: 9780062465252
  • ISBN 10: 0062465252
  • Imprint: HarperOne
  • On Sale: 10/09/2018
  • Pages: 208
  • List Price:21.00 CAD
  • BISAC1 : SOCIAL SCIENCE / Death & Dying
  • BISAC2 : RELIGION / Christian Life / Death, Grief, Bereavement
  • BISAC3 : BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Personal Memoirs

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