I Came All This Way to Meet You

Writing Myself Home

by Jami Attenberg

On Sale: 01/11/2022

I Came All This Way to Meet You

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I Came All This Way to Meet You

Writing Myself Home

by Jami Attenberg

On Sale: 01/11/2022


About the Book

From New York Times bestselling author Jami Attenberg comes a dazzling memoir about unlocking and embracing her creativity—and how it saved her life.

In this brilliant, fierce, and funny memoir of transformation, Jami Attenberg—described as a “master of modern fiction” (Entertainment Weekly) and the “poet laureate of difficult families” (Kirkus Reviews)—reveals the defining moments that pushed her to create a life, and voice, she could claim for herself. What does it take to devote oneself to art? What does it mean to own one’s ideas? What does the world look like for a woman moving solo through it?

As the daughter of a traveling salesman in the Midwest, Attenberg was drawn to a life on the road. Frustrated by quotidian jobs and hungry for inspiration and fresh experiences, her wanderlust led her across the country and eventually on travels around the globe. Through it all she grapples with questions of mortality, otherworldliness, and what we leave behind.

It is during these adventures that she begins to reflect on the experiences of her youth—the trauma, the challenges, the risks she has taken. Driving across America on self-funded book tours, sometimes crashing on couches when she was broke, she keeps writing: in researching articles for magazines, jotting down ideas for novels, and refining her craft, she grows as an artist and increasingly learns to trust her gut and, ultimately, herself.

Exploring themes of friendship, independence, class, and drive, I Came All This Way to Meet You is an inspiring story of finding one’s way home—emotionally, artistically, and physically—and an examination of art and individuality that will resonate with anyone determined to listen to their own creative calling.


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Critical Praise

“[Attenberg’s] frank and charming writing creates an intimacy with the reader. A fantastic choice for those who love writers’ memoirs, such as Alexander Chee’s How to Write an Autobiographical Novel.” - Booklist

“A remarkable memoir I’ll be re-reading forever.” - Ashley C. Ford, author of Somebody's Daughter

“This stunning work explores home not solely as geographic place but also as a mobile metaphor for the relationships we consistently run to and away from. Jami Attenberg cements her place as one of our greatest, most agile writers.”
- Kiese Laymon, author of Heavy and Long Division

"I Came All This Way to Meet You—which features the shining prose that characterizes Attenberg's fiction, while allowing us a glimpse behind the curtain of her process and her personal history—is one of the most artistically invigorating books I've read in years. It made me want to sit down and write." - Liz Moore, author of Long Bright River

“I Came All This Way To Meet You showcases all the very best of Jami Attenberg’s gifts, bringing intimacy to the forefront of the work, asking the reader to stay close, pay attention, to learn. The book is an embrace, a love letter to work and to friendship.” - Kristen Arnett, author of Mostly Dead Things and With Teeth

I Came All This Way To Meet You is a love story; it shows us a way to love art and our lives and our souls...It’s Eat Pray Love for Nick Cave fans." - Emily Flake, New Yorker cartoonist and author of That Was Awkward

"A wise and witty glimpse behind the travels and travails of one of our most beloved contemporary novelists. I Came All This Way To Meet You brims with humor, humility, pathos, and intelligence. I gulped down every page and finished sated, as if I'd spent a long weekend with a dear friend."  - Melissa Febos, author of Girlhood

“[S]parkling memoir….Tilted or upright, Attenberg’s story shines with wit and empathy.” - Publishers Weekly


Product Details

  • ISBN: 9780063039797
  • ISBN 10: 0063039796
  • Imprint: Ecco
  • On Sale: 01/11/2022
  • Pages: 272
  • List Price:34.99 CAD
  • BISAC3 : LANGUAGE ARTS & DISCIPLINES / Composition & Creative Writing

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